I post it every year, because every year they get worse and worse. #coachella #stupid #sad #california #music
Wed, 9 Apr 2014 10:24:40
I’m just saying it’s easier to kill a cat than dispose of a car.
Inspired #mileycyrus #bangerztour #bangerz #barclays #nyc #newyork #tongue
Thanks for a fun show, Miles. @mileycyrus #bangerz #mileycyrus #weed #pot #420 #concert #brooklyn #barclays #nyc #newyork #tongue #bangerztour
Brow game #browgame #pink #fuschia #selfie #plusmodel #plussizemodel #plussize #model #makeup #armani #sephora #makeupforever #college
I feel the need to address this publicly.
I find it extremely disgusting that this person finds the need to blame women for rape culture. That in itself is a prime example of rape culture. Women wanting to be dominated is not what feeds rape culture, ignorant men and women, uneducated people and rapists feed rape culture. My desire to be dominated is not an invitation for rape, nor is it the source of rape culture. How many of you learned about rape in your sex ed classes? rape doesn’t need to be separated from sex, it needs to be spoken about as the one type of sex that isn’t acceptable.
Secondly, people who do not understand BDSM culture should not weigh in on it. Ask questions instead of assume. A woman’s choice to participate in BDSM DOES NOT MAKER HER DAMAGED. It makes her in charge of her sexuality and it makes her respectful of her body. If there is consent then who is ANYONE to judge that? The irony is that this person is claiming that these people are damaged when he’s the one blaming girls like me for rape culture. You, Sir, are damaged. Yes, the educated, sexually liberally independent female is the one to blame, not the rapists themselves of course.
And the survey in reference in the last line is the post I posted yesterday with statistics about when people think rape is ok. I’m honestly disgusted and appalled that this person cannot see that the women who agree that some cases of rape are OK are not blatantly women who participate in BDSM. There is a difference between being violated against one’s will and CHOOSING to participate in sexual domination. The women who answered in the survery are not damaged, they are unfortunately the norm. They are the women who have been told by the partriarchy that they are somehow deserving of rape, that it’s ok under certain circumstances, and that they are not allowed to speak out about it.
So please educate yourself or just go away completely. Your ignorance is insulting. This is what happens when the uneducated try to mingle with the educated. So the best thing you ALL can do is educate yourself and take a step back to observe where and why you have the thoughts you do.
Please don’t ask dumb questions and waste my time. Either you want to me to come up with some scale of filth in which I can measure my level of filth and to measure in milliliters how much vaginal moisture I emit or you want some uninformative answer such as “So filthy,” or “Really wet,” which consequently has next to no value in gauging anything.
This serves as a warning to all who ask dumb questions.
Here’s what I’ve been up to and why I haven’t been posting.
I’m taking 21 credits right now:
Paris and London in the 19th Century
Psychology of Women
Culture, Ethics and Mental Health.
In addition, I’ve been shooting with more photographers and have been attending many open calls and castings.
I have a personal trainer and see her 3 times a week for an hour. We do strength training and the days I don’t see her I do cardio on my own time. So bottom line, I’m now a gym rat and I’m there about 6 days a week. Protein shakes and all.
Lastly, after having taken a good number of classes on these more taboo topics such as objectification and rape culture, I’ve been having a rather strong bout of cognitive dissonance. I feel that by perpetuating and normalizing the aggressive sex that I do on my blog, I am not taking enough responsibility in terms of enlightening people about rape culture, consent, objectification, micro-aggressions etc. I have so many followers and I feel that posting the things I do, without clarification invites disrespect towards me and other women. I have a platform to use in order to educate AND arouse and I am only, at the moment, doing the latter.
I have been determining how to re-boot the blog with more awareness, but still with great sex to look at and nice words to accompany it. In fact, I feel that even my blog name is no longer suitable. Regardless of if I am choosing to be called a slut or not, it still reinforces the patriarchal oppression with which the word is intended.
I have realized that the blog has allowed followers to speak to me how they think it’s ok to speak to a woman. The sight of an openly sexual female, especially one who is a minority, allows males to rid me of my humanity and use me as a target to project their sexual fantasies and aggressions onto without my consent. That’s not acceptable. I don’t have to take your jacking off to me as a compliment. That’s not my obligation.
So bear with me as I figure out how to address this internal battle. Basically, I am learning how to be a feminist while also being a sexually submissive female with a blog followed by a lot of ignorant people, and how to make that all function without feeling as if I am perpetuating sexual inequality and sexual violence.
I’m not one to have goals in comparisons to other women’s bodies, but her body is just stunning. Ideal for my personal goals.
As you can see I’m really feeling the female body today. I would absolutely love to lick and suck her breasts, kiss her curves, and feel her lips and tongue glide over my body simultaneously. Beautiful!
To be honest, this would be an ideal way for my first sexual experience with a girl to be. I’d love the comfort and familiarity of his thick cock inside me, while she licks and sucks my breasts, occasionally kissing along my jaw line.
I’d rather arch my back so that I don’t have to rub my clit, but can cum simply by the sensation of his balls smacking hard against my clit with each thrust.
If you’re going to have sex with someone and he is interested in you, do not worry about your body. Your partner can pick up on this and insecurity can ruin the entire sexual exchange. I’m fat and I’m on top always, in 69. Keep in mind that not all guys are interested in skinny girls, and some guys just don’t care either way. He’s not worried about it and neither should you be. Let loose and enjoy the moment.As women, we spend our entire lives criticizing ourselves and worrying about where each fat cell is placed. If you can’t have self love at any other time, at least allow yourself to enjoy your body during sex. That’s the point. Don’t over think it. I know it’s easier said than done, but if you really make a conscious effort, it can be done.
Focus on giving him a good experience, and allowing yourself to have a good experience. If you live your life in general, less concerned about your fat, you’ll enjoy your life much more. I promise.
Here’s a picture of my ass. :)
I need a volunteer to spread and lick.